Genetic counseling is a field that focuses on assisting couples in discovering and dealing with issues related to inherited disorders such as Cystic fibrosis, Hemophilia, and Huntington’s disease. Is it possible to provide genetic counseling as a Christian? How would you help a couple who wanted counseling to determine if they were going to carry their pregnancy to term?
Given the progress made in recent decades in the study of genetics, Christians would be remiss to ignore all discussion of hereditary issues. “When parents know beforehand that a ‘special child’ will be entering their world, it often gives a chance for their family, as well as the body of Christ, to come together and show the family support,” (McKenzie, 2009) or, as in the case presented in the prologue of chapter 2 of the textbook (Feldman, 2008), for actually preventing illness and tragedy. Followers of Christ, however, have an added responsibility to view all life as God views it – precious and planned (Psalm 139). This prohibits a Christian counselor from encouraging a couple to choose to terminate a pregnancy. The counselor does have a unique opportunity to help families struggling with these issues to learn about the character of God – His goodness (Psalm 31:19), love (1 John 4:8), sovereignty (Ephesians 1:11), trustworthiness (Hebrews 6:18), and omnipotence (Revelation 1:8).
How Would You Help a Couple Who Wanted Counseling to Determine if They Were Going to Carry Their Baby to Term?
Sensitivity, love, honesty, and trust should be at the forefront of all counseling discussions. Any counselor who holds to the sanctity of life, as does this writer, needs to make those convictions clear from the outset and give the couple an opportunity to seek another counseling situation if they so desire. Having clarified that, the counselor can then guide the couple through the stages of grief (if a major genetic abnormality has been discovered); help them prepare for the life they will lead with their child, however different it may be from their original expectations; and grow in their trust in God and experience of His peace.
References
Feldman, R. S. (2008). Development across the life span. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Prentice Hall.
